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10 Fascinating Death Facts from the Victorian Era - Listverse

Benjamin Franklin said: “in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” Well, nowadays some people do manage to escape paying taxes but death—as far as we know anyway—still can’t be avoided. And no time period planned for, feared and yes, even celebrated death more than the Victorian age.

With that said, here are ten fascinating facts about death in the Victorian era.

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Strange Deaths

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Fact: People Died in Very Strange Ways

While people did die from much the same ailments as we do today such as heart failure, strokes and pneumonia, there were just as many deaths caused underbizarre circumstances which serves as a looking glass of the times:

Ever hear of death by corset? Well, according to the Dundee Courier of October 22, 1844, one Jane Goodwin, twenty-two, was sitting in church when she was suddenly taken ill and was carried out of the church to the sexton’s house. Unfortunately before her friends got to her however, she was already dead. Her cause of death?—her corset was too tightly laced.

In a time when dentures were made from the teeth of the recently deceased, it’s rather ironic when one considers the death of Mr. Edwin Clayton who died after swallowing his false teeth. As was written in the June 8th 1904 edition of the Yorkshire Evening Post, “Mr. Clayton was suffocated at Endon, between Leek and Stoke, through swallowing his false teeth. A doctor said he found the top plate of Clayton’s false teeth wedged behind the claque of his throat, which would cause him to attempt to vomit, but he would not be able to do so, the fluid would enter the lungs, and he would be suffocated. A verdict of ‘Accidental Death’ was returned.”

Sadly, children were not exempt from death under bizarre circumstances. On December 2, 1873 a child named Mullins was fatally mauled by a pig. As was described in the Yorkshire Post, “Its throat and chest were so lacerated that it died in a short time. The pig dragged the child out of the house by the throat into the street. This is the second fatal accident of the kind at Galway within a month.”

Other ways people died that were indicative of the times was scarlet fever, typhoid, cholera and for women, death by burns which was caused by a combination of open hearth cooking and the use of highly flammable fabrics in their clothes.

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Superstitions

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Fact: There Were Many Superstitions Regarding Death

From weddings to illnesses, people in the Victorian age had many superstitionsregarding everyday life. But no life occurrence was the subject of more superstitions than death. Though no one really knows how or why the Victorians came up with these superstitions, many of them are quite malevolent and ominous in nature. Here’s a small sampling:

It is bad luck to meet a funeral procession head on. If you see one approaching, turn around. If this is unavoidable, hold on to a button until the funeral cortege passes.

Stop the clock in a death room or you will have bad luck.

If you hear a clap of thunder following a burial it indicates that the soul of the departed has reached heaven

If you don’t hold your breath while going by a graveyard you will not be buried.

If the deceased has lived a good life, flowers would bloom on his grave; but if he has been evil, only weeds would grow.

If you smell roses when no one is around, someone is going to die.

If you see yourself in a dream, your death will follow.

If a sparrow lands on a piano, someone in the home will die.

If a picture falls off a wall, there will be a death of someone you know.

A single snowdrop growing in the garden foretells death.

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Mementos

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Fact: Survivors Obsessively Coveted Mementos of the Deceased

So attached were survivors to the memory of the deceased, that families would obsessively collect any reminder of the deceased that could be had. Such items as lockets, brooches, rings and even locks of hair were known to be coveted.

And in an era when photography was still in its infancy, families were also known to take pictures of the deceased mere days after they passed. Called memento mori,which translates to “remember your mortality,” these photos showed the deceased in settings that displayed their personalities. If for example, the person was a carpenter, they would be photographed in a woodshed, if they were a priest, they would be photographed in church. And yes, if the deceased was an infant, the child would be posed with other family members. And in order to ensure that the deceased looked as natural as possible in these photos, the photographer would either prop the deceased eyes open or paint pupils on to the photographic print. Sometimes even a rosy tint would be added to their cheeks.

An even more macabre memento was in the sad case of a deceased infant, the family would often keep the dead body until it mummified, then dress the baby’s body and display it as an objet d’art!

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Funeral Etiquette

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Fact: Funeral Etiquette Was Rigorously Observed

For the Victorians, life was all about proper etiquette, and nowhere was this more evident than at funerals.

Unlike current times where anyone can attend a funeral service, in the Victorian age, a person must first wait to receive their formal written invitation. (It was not proper however, to send invitations to a funeral of a person who died from a contagious disease. In this case, there would just be a simple notice of death posted in the local paper with the simple phrase “funeral private” and all would be understood.) Funeral guests were then expected to arrive precisely an hour before the service was to begin. Upon entering the funeral parlor or house of the deceased, men were expected to remove their hats and not “replace them again while in the house.” Loud talking and laughter were also strictly forbidden and “interviews with the family at the time should not be expected.”

In the home or funeral parlor, the remains of the deceased were to be placed in such a way so that “when the discourse is finished, if the corpse is exposed to view, the assembled guests may see the same by passing in single file past the coffin, going from foot to head, up one aisle and down another.”

On the way to the burial, there were exactly six pall bearers who walked in threes, “on each side of the hearse, or in a carriage immediately before, while the near relatives directly follow the hearse succeeded by those more distantly connected.” Ladies however, were firmly denied the privilege of following the remains to the grave by strict social etiquette.

At the end of the service, the master of ceremonies preceded the mourners to the carriages and assisted the ladies to their places. If the physician of the deceased happened to be in attendance, he was placed in the carriage immediately following the near relatives of the deceased.

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Mourning Periods

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Fact: Mourning Periods Were Strictly Regulated

Thanks to Queen Victoria who turned mourning into an art form unto itself, mourning the dead in the Victorian age became a very strict and formal occasion with a great many rules and regulations.

When a person initially died, so began the mourning process. Curtains were immediately drawn, clocks were stopped at the time of death and mirrors were covered because of the superstition that the spirit of the deceased could become trapped in the reflective glass.

Mourning periods were divided into two time frames: deep mourning and half mourning. A widow was expected to mourn her husband for at least two years during which time she was expected to wear black at all times with her only social agenda being at church. Parents who lost a child were in deep mourning for nine months and half mourning for three months. Children who lost their parents mourned for the same amount of time. The death of a sibling required three months of deep mourning and three months of half mourning. In-laws, aunts, uncles, cousins and other relatives all had mourning periods that ranged from six weeks to six months.

As you can probably guess, it would not be unusual for a person to be in mourning sometimes for the better part of a year.

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Mourning Attire

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Fact: Mourning Attire Was Very Strict

Due to the strict adherence to mourning attire, it was quite easy to recognize not only who was in mourning but also for how long. And of course women were the main attractions of this particular fashion show.

During the first six months of mourning, the widow was expected to wear a full length dress made entirely of black crepe with white crepe collars and cuffs. On her head she would wear a crepe bonnet with a long crepe veil and a widows cap also of white crepe with black kid gloves on her hands. All kinds of black fur and seal-skin were also worn during this time.

After six months, the crepe material was removed and after three months the widows cap was removed. Now the widow could wear a dress made of silk garbardine, plain black grosgrain or crepe trimmed cashmere with jet trimmings. She could also exchange the heavy crepe veil for a lighter one.

As for the use of crepe in mourning veils, doctors were very much opposed to its usage. Many doctors felt that when worn over the face for an extended period of time, the black dye from the crepe material “sheds its pernicious dye into the sensitive nostrils, producing catarrhal disease as well as blindness and cataract of the eye. It is a thousand pities that fashion dictates the crape veil, but so it is. It is the very banner of woe, and no one has the courage to go without it. We can only suggest to mourners wearing it that they should pin a small veil of black tulle over the eyes and nose, and throw back the heavy crape as often as possible, for health’s sake.”

And while women were slaves to their mourning attire, men however, had itrelatively easy. They simply wore their usual dark suits with black gloves and black cravats.

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Churchyards

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Fact: Churchyards Overflowed With Burials

At a time when there was little to no standards for sanitation, the burial of the deceased occurred in churchyards many of which in were in the middle of small towns. Over time the churchyards became so overflowing with dead bodies that the surrounding neighborhoods became decidedly unhealthy.

The bodies were usually buried in shallow pits beneath the floorboards of chapels and schools. And while churchyards may seem to contain only a small number of gravestones, that was actually however, quite misleading. For example, a churchyard that was only 200 square feet (18.6 square meters) in length would in actuality contain sixty or seventy thousand bodies.

By the 1830s however, things changed when barrister, George Frederick Carden decided to create a commercial cemetery much like Paris’s Pere Lachaise, an exquisite park-like cemetery. And so it was in 1831 when fifty-five acres of land in London’s Kensal Green was purchased and thus was borne London’s first great cemetery.

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Dressing the Dead

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Fact: Different Rules Applied for Dressing the Dead

While the fashion code for mourners was quite detailed and extreme, the rules were quite the opposite for dressing the deceased. The remains of a man were usually “clad in his habit as he lived.” A woman’s remains however, were usually dressed in a white robe and cap while children were dressed in white cashmere robes. As for the casket, it was usually made of hardwood or cast iron especially if the deceased died from a highly contagious disease such as diphtheria or cholera. Typically, the coffin itself would remain plain on the outside save for a swath of black cloth while the inside was usually satin lined.

Another addition to the coffin’s interior was usually a bell of some sort. Due to the contagious nature of diseases like small pox, cholera and diphtheria as well as the misdiagnosis of comas for death, unfortunately many people were actually buried alive in the Victorian age. Therefore, as a means of forestalling a not quite dead person’s burial, the installation of bells in coffins became de rigeuer.

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Fact: Queen Victoria Started It All

She was a popular and powerful queen but nowhere was Victoria’s influence felt more deeply than when she mourned the death of her beloved husband Prince Albert. After Albert’s sudden passing from typhoid fever in November 1861, Victoria became deeply depressed and soon turned mourning him into her chief concern for the rest of her days.

Shortly after Albert died, Victoria instructed her servants to maintain the Prince’s rooms exactly as he had them when he was alive. They were also instructed to bring hot water to his dressing room for his morning shave just as they always did and to dress in black for the first three years after his death. Victoria however, continued wearing black for the rest of her life.

Victoria continued mourning Albert by having statues made of him, displaying his mementoes around the royal palaces and staying secluded in Windsor Castle for many years after his death.

After several years of this, the public became quite concerned about her sanity yet so powerful was her popularity and influence that soon the British public took on her extreme form of bereavement and thus the Victorian way of mourning was borne.

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Death Nightclubs

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Fact: Nightclubs Existed to Celebrate Death

While the majority of the above entries showed how the Victorians planned for and feared their mortality, in Victorian Paris there were several night clubs that actuallycelebrated death.

In the neighborhood of Montmartre, one could ponder their mortality in the aptly named Cabaret du Néant (The Cabaret of Nothingness).

At this gothic nightspot, visitors were served by monks and funeral attendees who offered drinks named after diseases which were imbibed on top of coffins and caskets.

At Cabaret de l’Enfer (The Cabaret of the Inferno), patrons would be greeted by a chorus of voices shouting “enter and be damned, the Evil One awaits you!” At this satanically themed nightclub, a half dozen devil musicians, both male and female, would be suspended in a caldron over a fire, playing selections from Faust as red imps stood with hot irons ready to prod those musicians who dared miss a beat. Throughout the room, other red imps would serve beverages or do somersaults as crevices in the walls would suddenly spew thick smoke and emit odors of volcanoes while flames would suddenly burst from clefts in the rocks.

And of course, what would Hell be without Heaven so right next to The Cabaret of the Inferno stood the Cabaret du Ciel (The Cabaret of the Sky).

At this heavenly themed bar, patrons were greeted by Dante and Father Time, served drinks by attractive ladies dressed as angels and were entertained by St. Peter himself.

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Lincoln's Deathbed - Retrospectives - Obit-Mag.com

We think of deathbeds as places of confession, of famous last words. (O. Henry: “Turn up the lights, I don’t want to go home in the dark.” Lytton Strachey: “If this is dying, I don’t think much of it.” Winston Churchill: “I’m so bored with it all.”) President Abraham Lincoln said nothing on his deathbed, on which he was laid after John Wilkes Booth shot him in the head during a performance of Our American Cousin at the Ford’s Theatre on April 14, 1865. In the cruelest of ironies, America’s greatest orator was, during the nine hours he spent on the bed in the Petersen boarding house across from Ford’s, incapable of speech. 

Lincoln's DeathbedAnd yet the bed itself, with its modest spool-turned frame in dark wood, is remarkably eloquent—perhaps the most emotionally resonant piece of extant furniture in American history, as fraught in its homespun way as anything in the far grander precincts of the White House, the royal apartments of Versailles or the Coronation Chair in Westminster Abbey. The bed is one of the most treasured objects of the collection of the Chicago History Museum, which has featured it in a new exhibit, “Abraham Lincoln,” which opened on his birthday in 2011 and is scheduled to continue indefinitely. A companion installation, “Lincoln’s Chicago” — focusing on his relationship with the city where he forged the connections that made possible his nomination as the Republican candidate for the presidency in 1860, and where 125,000 people viewed his body as it lay in state five years later — will remain on view through 2015, the sesquicentennial of the end of the Civil War.  

The bed has been shown as part of various exhibits since 1920, when the museum (then known as the Chicago Historical Society) acquired it from Charles F. Gunther, a wealthy Chicagoan and collector of historic memorabilia. (Gunther bought the bed from a private citizen who had purchased it, several years after the assassination, from William A. Petersen, a German-born tailor who had built the Federal-style rowhouse in the nation’s capital at 516 10th Street in 1849.) The decision to put the bed on permanent display behind glass, as the centerpiece of the new exhibition, was something of a no-brainer.

“Our visitors always want to see the deathbed,” the exhibit’s curator, Libby Mahoney, told me during a preview tour last week. “It’s from another era, but contemporary audiences are fascinated by it.”     

It’s both difficult and easy to see why. Difficult because the bed is so apparently unremarkable, displayed here covered with a humble, black-patterned coverlet typical of its day; at the head of the bed is a reproduction of the period lithograph — of a blacksmith shoeing a white horse — that hung on the wall at Petersen’s that dark night and darker morning. Easy because you plainly see that Lincoln, who was 6-feet-4, could not have been stretched out fully on this bed, made in a time when the average American male was considerably shorter than he is today. In fact, Lincoln was laid out on a diagonal, an angle that, had he been conscious, would no doubt have been uncomfortable.
    
LincolnThat human, all-too-specific detail in turn conjures the whole tragic scene as it has been described in countless books and articles: the Army surgeon Dr. Charles Leale’s examination of the president and his initial difficulty at locating the wound (hidden beneath Lincoln’s still fairly full head of hair); Leale’s decision to clear the wound and allow it to bleed, alleviating the pressure on Lincoln’s brain and probably prolonging his life by several hours; Mary Todd Lincoln’s shock, her agony and her stream of mostly unanswered questions about her husband’s prospects for survival; Secretary of War Edwin M. Stanton’s issuing of a series of communiqués securing the capital and directing the unfolding manhunt for Booth; the parade of Cabinet members, Congressmen and others who were allowed to view the dying president; Lincoln’s increasingly labored breathing, which finally stopped at 7:22 a.m. on April 15; the subsequent prayer by Phineas Densmore Gurley, a Presbyterian minister who served as Lincoln’s spiritual advisor and as chaplain of the U.S. Senate; and Stanton’s valedictory comment, possibly apocryphal (though included in the History Museum narration), that Lincoln now belonged “to the ages.”

Whether Stanton uttered it or not, the phrase is self-evident today. Although Lincoln was not the paragon of idealism that some have described in the century and a half since his death — as a presidential candidate, he did not support the abolition of slavery, fearing that such a move would destroy the Union, and he issued the Emancipation Proclamation only in 1863, well after his worst fears had been realized — his wartime leadership makes him universally viewed as one of our three greatest presidents, along with Washington and Franklin D. Roosevelt. (Lincoln was No. 1 in the majority of 17 national polls of presidential historians conducted between 1948 and 2011, and has never ranked lower than No. 3.)       

The exhibit encompasses a good deal more than the deathbed, of course. There are slave shackles from the 1850s; a handsome gold watch presented to Lincoln in 1861 by the publishers of the Illinois State Journal, a Republican newspaper in Springfield, just before he departed for Washington; the famous rail-splitter axes and a torch carried during dramatic nighttime rallies in Chicago and elsewhere by his paramilitary supporters, the Wide Awakes; and reproductions of Lincoln busts from 1860 and 1865, the contrast between the two illustrating the dreadful physical toll of his presidency.

Of particular interest to residents of the Windy City is “Lincoln’s Chicago,” which features oil portraits and photographs of people and places that figured prominently in the Lincoln biography up to his inauguration. Here we see a portrait of his archrival Stephen A. Douglas, the pro-slavery Democrat who defeated Lincoln in the Senate campaign of 1858, later engaged him in a series of famous debates, and was finally defeated by him in the national election of 1860. Here are John and Mary Jones, free black Chicagoans and fervent abolitionists who supported Lincoln, and Mary Rice Livermore, who organized two fairs that raised the astonishing sum of $800,000 for wounded Union soldiers and their families, and who built an impressive soldier’s home that still stands at 35th and Cottage Grove. And here is Lincoln himself, as he appeared during the 1860 campaign — without the famous beard that he grew expressly for his first inauguration. 

Lake St., ChicagoThere are also beautiful, strikingly detailed lithographs of Chicago scenes familiar to Lincoln, including the Tremont House at Lake and Dearborn streets, where he usually stayed while in town and from whose balcony he gave an impassioned anti-slavery speech to the thousands gathered below in 1858, the night after Douglas had spoken from the same location; the McVickers Theatre, where Our American Cousin was running while Lincoln was being nominated a few blocks away, and where Booth played to rave reviews in 1862; and the courthouse where the president’s body lay in state. 

None of these, of course, has the sheer visceral impact of the deathbed, which in the now somewhat frayed civic religion that is American democracy may be the closest thing we have to a holy relic. Lincoln was our first and is still our greatest martyr, and it’s well worth a pilgrimage to see the humble pallet that bore him away. See it and weep.

Kevin Nance is a Chicago-based writer and critic who contributes frequently to Obit. 
  

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